There was a simple gathering at my mom’s house last night. Me & my sister brought a cake while my mom cooked our family’s favorite dish. It was my dad’s supposed 80th birthday. Had one desire though yesterday. How I wish God allows visiting hours in heaven.
In a couple of months I will be celebrating my 20th birthday on being 30 years old. I must be excited because I am already writing about it. Or am I really excited or just anxious about this uncertain point in one’s life? A lot of people embrace it others are unenthusiastic while some are simply numb.
What is alarming about my about-to-celebrate birthday the fiftieth time is that I am still single, lone, solo, free and unattached (do I really have to accentuate this much? Hahaha!). People can say that in the aspect of finding and attracting a life partner I may be the living proof that The Secret revealed by Rhonda Byrne in her book regarding the law of attraction is nothing but a futile idea and an unsuccessful suggestion.
I have done all Rhonda Byrne has opined. I slept in only one side of my bed which at times I find myself waking up on the floor because I unconsciously fell while sleeping at some point in the middle of the night. I prepare food good for two servings which only resulted to my having to purchase larger sized clothing. I allotted a space in my dresser which caused me to buy and install further dressers so as to have more space for my retail therapy. I even bought and installed two cute robot toothbrush hangers inside my bathroom!
robot toothbrush hangers on my bathroom wall
hoping to have fun when i’m five zero
Despite this unsuccessful approaches and years may have passed, I would still like to believe in Rhonda Byrne when she say, “There is no such thing as a hopeless situation. Every single circumstance of your life can change”.
I really hope and wish that Rhonda Byrne would prove me wrong. According to her, thoughts become things. But I really wish that in this coming November thoughts would finally become a person. Keeping my fingers (and toes) crossed!
Last weekend, I and my whole family celebrated Nengkoy’s 82nd birthday. And every year, we make sure that Nengkoy’s birthday is celebrated in a grand way. The whole family would spend overnight in an opulent resort out of town.
But this year was a little different. Though it was still an overnight out of town, it is now held not in a luxury resort but at a more private place. The venue this year was a little different and a lot farther from Manila. It was a 5-hour travel by land. We held it at the super huge and lavish house of Thatcher and Alexis, my niece and nephew-in-law or the two of the plenty grandchildren of Nengkoy.
the crazy and insane team langit
a swim with my grand nephew arziolo
And like every other year that was, this year’s celebration was a blast. And an addition to the already huge family has joined us, our little boy Arziolo joined the fun filled celebration.
Nengkoy gave us a scare last year when she suffered from some numerous serious ailments. We hope that this year would be a very good year for Nengkoy health wise. The whole family only has two wishes for her. That would be good health and continuous luck in her mahjong exploits.
this out of town celebration will not be complete if there would be no mahjoong session. playing mahjong with my elder sister, my niece erika and the owner of the house thatcher
Last year on my birthday, I went to the Love Valley in Cappadocia, Turkey, and surprisingly met an angel in disguise. This year on my birthday, I went to Mexico City and saw the cloak of Saint Juan Diego Cuauhtlatoatzin.
My birthday this year was really special because I got to visit the Basilica de Santa Maria de Guadalupe! The basilica that houses the very popular cloak in which the image of our Lady of Guadalupe has been miraculously been impressed and printed so as to authenticate Virgin Mary’s apparitions in the area.
seeing this was for me a miracle already
My birthday this year fell on a Saturday yet there was a Holy Mass service held in the basilica when I arrived. This gave me the opportunity to hear a Mexican Holy Mass and say humongous thanks to the Lady of Guadalupe for the rare travel gift of experiencing the amazing city of Mexico.
The modern Basilica de Santa Maria de Guadalupe is vast and massive complex. It is the most visited Marian shrine in Mexico because it houses the cloak containing the image of Our Lady of Guadalupe. It is interesting to know that the new basilica was only completed in 1974. The old basilica (finished in 1709) on the other hand is just adjacent to it but is already sinking. Its floor has got some deep slope and its façade has evidently tilted. It looks like it will dangerously fall and crumble anytime.
notice how tilted the old church is?
selfie with the Lady!
My prayer to the Lady of Guadalupe was all about my being thankful that I got to experience Mexico. I did not asked for any miracle because my seeing and marveling over the beauty and holiness of the cloak during my birthday has been one major miracle for me already.
Theory in quantum mechanics has mathematically proven that an alternate universe subsists. That similar us’s actually exists in those universes. And if I would be given the choice, I would still want my mother to be my mother in that alternate universe. Nengkoy no doubt has been such an awesome mother and she has turned 80 years old last March 3.
I was too happy to write a blog then. And now that the elation has receded a bit, let me blow a shower of kisses and greet an awesome Happy Birthday to Nengkoy!
Only God and I knows why I am very happy today!!! My general happy feeling can be described by my chosen song of the day. And I would like to greet a very Happy Birthday to the woman who sang this lovely song.
A shower of kisses to you and see in February here in Manila!
Maligayang bati sa bruha kong aydol! ‘Di lang ikaw ang hapi ngayon, AKO din…